India is rife with domestic violence. Relatively minor wife battering is commonplace, and Indian men and women alike readily agree it is justifiable. Why does it occur? There are several reasons. A man who beats his wife will not be objurgated if he is intoxicated. Wife battering will also occur as a dowry demand. These women are held as prisoners in an attempt extort money from their families. Also, women who are sterilized (sterilization is a common form of birth control in India) are more likely to be beaten. After all, there are basically no repercussions for hitting a woman who can’t bear you a son, right? Wives who are adulterous or disobedient in general will garner beatings, as well. The only time there are consequences for wife battering are if the beating exceptionally violent, or if none of the above conditions are met.
Child abuse is another problem in India. You would think that modernization would lead to a decrease in domestic violence, but that has not been the case. This is apparent in that people of all classes, NOT just lower class people, admit to corporal punishment of their children—56.9% of parents, in fact. Industrialization has hugely increased intrafamilial stress, which contributes to this violence. Young girls are especially victimized, because Indian culture labels them as nearly worthless compared to boys. Modernization contributes to this too: feticide is used to kill off baby girls in utero. This could not happen without modernization because how would people know the sex of their fetus without ultrasound?
Vietnam is another arena of domestic violence. The beautiful Vietnamese scenery belies what is going on in the homes of the citizens. In fact, there is more than one type of domestic violence here: invisible violence and visible violence. The invisible violence is not physical violence. Instead, the men of society dominate the women through terror and intimidation. This continues even though Vietnamese women are far more productive than men; the women earn more money AND do the housework. Visible violence—which leads to many divorces—is more akin to the wife battering in India. Dissatisfied, poor men take out their aggravations on their defenseless spouses. The problem is also spurred by the adherence to old Confucian beliefs, including that everything is a hierarchy—and in family life, men are higher up this hierarchy. In Vietnamese visible violence, we also see some of the same justifications that we saw in Indian wife battering, such as alcohol and unfaithfulness (on the part of the wife).
By Roy