1a. Domestic Violence is similar in India, Japan, Vietnam and Africa because they all have some type of domestic violence in their country but it differs because each country has their own form of violence. There is family violence, which means that in a household child abuse and wife battering occur on a regular basis? In Japan wife battering happens when the husband beats his wife on a regular basis and usually it first starts out with a hit and then sometimes it can lead to a deadly assault. Then there is just plain of’ domestic violence that occurs in African and Vietnam. Wife battering is common in industrial countries such as Japan and the United States because even though the United States isn’t as organized as Japan that doesn’t mean that wife battering doesn’t happen. It mostly happens because the women will try to get out of an abusive relationship by breaking up or getting a divorce but that’s when the real beating starts. The man is not ready to let go yet and he takes his anger out on his women. Or it could be that the man is so tired and stressed out from work and one little thing like forgetting to make dinner could lead the women in very rough shape. Even though there are laws in the United States for wife battering it still happens and Japan needs to get recognized with the problem they are having with wife battering.
2. Most women in these countries never complain about domestic violence because for fear that if their husband or boyfriend were to find out they would hurt them. They also think that it happens a lot they think it is normal so there is no need to report it to anyone, it’s no big deal. They think that it is an ‘everyday affair’ so there is no need to report it. The individual, legal, historical and cultural factors help explain the silence of women, because in India it is historical and cultural to have a boy. So if the wife has a boy for a child they don’t have to worry about getting beat. If you plan to have birth control 9 chances out of 10, you are going to get beaten. Form of birth control is considered bad in India.It’s the sociological expectations. The indiviual factor is that it’s ok that the man beats his wife when he’s drunk because he is drunk he can’t control anything, he doesn’t know what he is doing. If he doesn’t drink and beat someone, he is a wonderful kind man.
3. When Leeder urges the reader to suspend “any ethnocentric value judgements” about family violence is because she means for the reader to not think about enthnocentricism which means don’t judge a culture by your own culture and beliefs. She doesn’t want you to think of Indian men as terrible people because not all of them beat their wife. She wants us to think that the United States and India are two totally different countries and we have different values and cultures that we seem to live by.
By: Nicole